By Tom Raquer
December 6, 2025
Dear Essential American Citizen,
Imagine a community torn apart by conflicting beliefs. This isn’t just a distant concern; it permeates our daily lives and societal discussions. We notice this reality across Europe. In the UK, Germany, France, and Scandinavian countries, issues surrounding Islam and immigration ignite fierce debates. They also cause divisions. As we strive for a tolerant society, we hear that acceptance of all individuals is a foundational virtue. Accepting all ideas is also considered fundamental. But let’s pause and ask ourselves: What happens if this cherished virtue, applied without limits, becomes our greatest vulnerability? Should we confront the uncomfortable truth that, to preserve our freedoms, we must be intolerant of one thing? INTOLERANCE ITSELF.
The Paradox at the Heart of America
America isn’t just a place on the map; it’s an extraordinary experiment in human history. Our nation is not built from ethnicity. It is built from a powerful idea: that all people are created equal. They are endowed with inalienable rights. Throughout our history, we have faced challenging moments in realizing this ideal. These challenges range from the Civil Rights Movement to today’s debates over immigration and equality.
Think about the Civil Rights Movement—a pivotal time when ordinary citizens stood up against institutionalized discrimination. Their courage reshaped laws and transformed hearts, forging a path toward a more inclusive society. As we celebrate these victories, we must stay vigilant and constantly redefine what true tolerance means in a diverse world. Today, communities grapple with integrating diverse populations while upholding core values and social cohesion.
Understanding Intolerance
When we stand against harmful ideologies, we risk being labeled “phobic” or “racist.” Opposing ideologies that promote discrimination against women is not bigotry. It’s a matter of principle. Rejecting extremist ideologies—whether they come from abroad or arise within our borders—does not mean rejecting people. It reaffirms our commitment to the values that define a diverse and inclusive society. Just like in any family, we must set boundaries to make sure that everyone can thrive together in peace.
Civic Nationalism Versus Ethnic Nationalism
It’s crucial to distinguish between civic nationalism and ethnic nationalism:
– Ethnic Nationalism asks, “Where do you come from?” It defines belonging through bloodlines and ancestry.
– Civic Nationalism, nevertheless, poses a more profound question: “Do you believe in the ideals that unite us?” It invites individuals to embrace a society governed by shared laws and principles. The invitation is for those committed to our constitutional order.
This civic framework doesn’t demand the abandonment of cultural identities. Instead, it prioritizes our identity as engaged citizens. We uphold freedom and democracy for all. Critics argue that prioritizing civic nationalism undermines genuine cultural diversity. Nevertheless, true inclusion thrives on a shared commitment to core values. It does not fragment along ethnic lines.
Setting Boundaries for Our Society
To safeguard our ideals, we must set clear, non-negotiable rules for participation:
1. No Parallel Legal Systems: The U.S. Constitution must reign supreme for all.
2. No Ideology Mandating Discrimination: Equal rights for every citizen are non-negotiable.
3. No Violence Justified by Supremacy: Acts committed under the guise of superiority are unacceptable.
4. No Divided Allegiance: We honor our heritage. Yet, our primary loyalty must lie with American principles of equality and democracy.
These guidelines are not exclusionary; they are foundational for a society striving to be fair and just.
The True Meaning of Tolerance
Let’s clarify what we mean by tolerance. We embrace diversity in thought, heritage, and customs, but we can’t extend our tolerance to encompass intolerance itself. A society that allows harmful ideologies to fester can’t sustain its peace. Current tensions across Europe serve as a critical warning. Some communities struggle to assimilate diverse cultures. They need to stay true to their foundational principles.
Our Model of Success
The American model shines brightly where others falter. It evaluates individuals based on their contributions and shared values. It does not evaluate them based on their ancestry. Our history is marked by both triumphs and tragedies. One such triumph is the resolve shown during the Civil Rights Movement. In contrast, the painful shame of Japanese American internment during World War II marks a tragic period. These moments remind us of the dangers of unchecked bigotry. They also show the dire consequences of allowing intolerance to invade the fabric of our society.
Even with our flaws, our system incorporates mechanisms for self-improvement, reinforcing our commitment to justice and equality. As engaged citizens, we must champion these values within our communities through education, dialogue, and active participation. Community forums, workshops, and discussions can strengthen our collective commitment to creating a more just society.
Moving Ahead: Embracing Our Values with Clarity
As we navigate these complex issues, we must resist being silenced by false accusations. It’s time to:
1. Celebrate civic nationalism as a monumental achievement in human cooperation.
2. Educate every citizen about their rights and responsibilities through community initiatives.
3. Enforce our laws fairly against those who would undermine our principles.
4. Judge individuals by their commitment to shared American values rather than superficial labels.
Conclusion: Defending Our Freedom
The American experiment is a powerful testament to the ability of diverse groups to coexist harmoniously. Nonetheless, protecting this experiment requires bravery—the bravery to defend the principles that allow our society to thrive.
We welcome anyone willing to join our American family. Nevertheless, we must stand firm in safeguarding the values that make this family enduring. This perspective shapes our national identity and fosters an environment where all can succeed.
Your Turn
We think on the delicate balance between tolerance and the need to stand firm against intolerance. I invite you, the Essential American Citizen, to ponder a question. How can our society balance the need for tolerance with the necessity of rejecting intolerance? I encourage you to engage in meaningful conversations with friends and family. Join in community dialogues that foster understanding. Build bridges.
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Tom Raquer is a retired United States Air Force Southeast Asia Foreign Area Officer and a former USA Army sergeant. He has served in various capacities throughout Southeast Asia, nurturing a dedication to preserving and strengthening our American Constitutional Republic.
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